{"id":4933,"date":"2017-03-06T09:00:49","date_gmt":"2017-03-06T08:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rosicrucianum.cz\/?p=4933"},"modified":"2022-02-10T16:52:22","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T15:52:22","slug":"zkoumanim-hranic-poznavame-svobodu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rosicrucianum.org\/sk\/blog\/2017\/03\/06\/zkoumanim-hranic-poznavame-svobodu\/","title":{"rendered":"ZKOUM\u00c1N\u00cdM HRANIC POZN\u00c1V\u00c1ME SVOBODU"},"content":{"rendered":"

Z \u010dasopisu Pentagram 2016-4<\/a>:<\/p>\n

VZD\u011aL\u00c1VAT\u2026 POSKYTOVAT PROSTOR, KDE JE TO MO\u017dN\u00c9, UR\u010cOVAT HRANICE, KDE JE TO NUTN\u00c9<\/strong><\/p>\n

Zkoum\u00e1n\u00edm hranic pozn\u00e1v\u00e1me svobodu<\/strong><\/h1>\n
V\u00a0l\u00e1skypln\u00e9m objet\u00ed miluj\u00edc\u00edch rukou se d\u00edt\u011b c\u00edt\u00ed nejjist\u011bji. A\u00a0p\u0159ece jsou tu chv\u00edle, kdy matka mus\u00ed \u201ed\u00edt\u011b odlo\u017eit\u201c. Je to za\u010d\u00e1tek jeho osamostat\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed a\u00a0objevov\u00e1n\u00ed prostoru. T\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 jako ztracen\u00e9 pak d\u00edt\u011b le\u017e\u00ed v\u00a0pro n\u011bj nekone\u010dn\u011b obrovsk\u00e9 kol\u00e9bce. O\u00a0n\u011bco pozd\u011bji, kdy\u017e nabere sil, objev\u00ed, jak se samo pohnout, a\u017e se jeho hlava dotkne boku kol\u00e9bky. N\u011bco jako n\u00e1hrada st\u011bny d\u011blohy? Zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee hled\u00e1 to, co zn\u00e1, pocit bezpe\u010d\u00ed b\u00fdt obklopen: \u201eC\u00edt\u00edm hranice, tedy jsem\u201c.<\/h5>\n

DOMA\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>O\u00a0n\u011bco pozd\u011bji nav\u017edy kon\u010d\u00ed obdob\u00ed horizont\u00e1ln\u00ed polohy le\u017een\u00ed na b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ku nebo na z\u00e1dech. Sv\u011bt kol\u00e9bky a\u00a0ohr\u00e1dky si samo zv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed na pokoj a\u00a0pozd\u011bji na vstupn\u00ed halu, scho\u00addi\u0161t\u011b\u2026 Je fascinuj\u00edc\u00ed, jak d\u00edt\u011b s\u00a0plnou d\u016fv\u011brou radostn\u011b jde na svou objevi\u00adtelskou v\u00fdpravu: nejd\u0159\u00edve po \u010dty\u0159ech a\u00a0pozd\u011bji na obou noh\u00e1ch objevuje hranice a\u00a0posouv\u00e1 je. Hranice ov\u0161em posouvaj\u00ed jak d\u00edt\u011b, tak i\u00a0rodi\u010de. Zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b je poh\u00e1n\u011bno p\u0159irozenou touhou objevovat a\u00a0t\u00edm se u\u010d\u00ed a\u00a0roste. Rodi\u00ad\u010de tak\u00e9 objevuj\u00ed, ale cht\u011bj\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b hl\u00eddat a\u00a0chr\u00e1nit: \u201eOpatrn\u011b! D\u00e1vej pozor!\u201c Kde je potom d\u016fv\u011bra? Pro\u010d se boj\u00ed, \u017ee by jejich d\u00edt\u011b mohlo upadnout, sp\u00e1lit se nebo onemocn\u011bt? D\u011bt\u0161t\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159i \u0159\u00edka\u00adj\u00ed: \u201eDovolte sv\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti zku\u0161enosti, dokonce i\u00a0tehdy, kdy\u017e jsou bolestiv\u00e9!\u201c<\/p>\n

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\nD\u011bti mo\u0159e, Jozef Isra\u00ebls, 1872 \u00a9 Rijksmuseum, Amsterdam<\/strong><\/p>\n

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NA \u010cERSTV\u00c9M VZDUCHU\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>Mal\u00e1 rodina je na pl\u00e1\u017ei. Je kr\u00e1sn\u00fd slune\u010dn\u00fd den s\u00a0hrady z p\u00edsku a\u00a0nekone\u010dn\u00fdm hled\u00e1n\u00edm mu\u0161li\u010dek. A\u00a0n\u00e1hle nastane \u00fad\u011bs: d\u00edt\u011b zmizelo. Rodi\u010de ho hledaj\u00ed v\u0161ude, volaj\u00ed ho a\u00a0nakonec b\u011b\u017e\u00ed za plav\u010d\u00edkem. Klidn\u00fd hlas jim \u0159\u00edk\u00e1:
\n\u201ePoj\u010fte, pod\u00edvejme se sm\u011brem, od\u00adkud fouk\u00e1 v\u00edtr.\u201c
\n\u201ePro\u010d?\u201c
\n\u201eProto\u017ee odpor proti v\u011btru d\u00e1v\u00e1 d\u011btem pocit omezen\u00ed, hranic. Tak to prost\u011b c\u00edt\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se vyd\u00e1 po sm\u011bru v\u011btru, d\u00edt\u011bti p\u0159ipad\u00e1, \u017ee se odpor v\u011bt\u00adru a\u00a0s\u00a0n\u00edm i\u00a0hranice ztr\u00e1c\u00ed.\u201c
\nA\u00a0vskutku, zanedlouho o\u00a0kousek d\u00e1l po pl\u00e1\u017ei kr\u00e1\u010d\u00ed zcela klidn\u011b mal\u00fd bos\u00fd \u010dlov\u00ed\u010dek s\u00a0um\u00edn\u011bnou hlavi\u010dkou ve v\u011btru.<\/p>\n

VE \u0160KOLE\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>Baculat\u00e9 ru\u010dky batolete se prom\u011bnily v\u00a0kostnat\u00e9 ruce chlapce, ovl\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00ed jemn\u00e9 motorick\u00e9 dovednos\u00adti. Jak\u00e1 je to zm\u011bna proti hrab\u00e1n\u00ed ho\u00adl\u00fdma rukama v\u00a0mokr\u00e9m p\u00edsku nebo m\u00edch\u00e1n\u00ed bahna klac\u00edkem. Najednou mus\u00ed vybarvovat a\u00a0ps\u00e1t p\u0159esn\u011b mezi linky! Jak\u00e9 je to omezen\u00ed! Bude m\u00edt pozd\u011bji v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b ve sv\u00e9 dosp\u011blosti je\u0161\u00adt\u011b n\u011bkdy odvahu myslet \u201evn\u011b hranic\u201c?<\/p>\n

V\u00a0KRUHU P\u0158\u00c1TEL\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>Kdy\u017e se s\u00a0nimi setk\u00e1te, p\u0159ipadaj\u00ed v\u00e1m v\u0161ichni stejn\u00ed. Nechod\u00ed, ale vle\u010dou se. Nesed\u00ed, ale hrb\u00ed se. Jako by nev\u011bd\u011bli, co se sv\u00fdma dlouh\u00fdma rukama a\u00a0nohama. I\u00a0kdyby vlastn\u011b cht\u011bli stav\u011bt lesn\u00ed ch\u00fd\u0161i nebo \u0161plhat na strom, u\u017e necht\u011bj\u00ed d\u011blat nic. V\u00a0\u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b. Maj\u00ed pohodu. Se sv\u00fdmi mobily jsou dosa\u017eiteln\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9\u00admu s\u00a0v\u00fdjimkou vlastn\u00edch rodi\u010d\u016f, p\u0159\u00e1\u00adtel\u00e9 jsou pro n\u011b mnohem d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. A\u00a0tak se na jedn\u00e9 stran\u011b nechali chytit do s\u00edt\u011b nevy\u0159\u010den\u00fdch, av\u0161ak \u010dasto vy\u00adnucen\u00fdch kodex\u016f kruhu jejich p\u0159\u00e1tel. Na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b jsou to mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 tak intenz\u00edvn\u011b tou\u017e\u00edc\u00ed po sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed svo\u00adbod\u011b, \u017ee tvrd\u011b bojuj\u00ed s\u00a0hranicemi na\u00adstaven\u00fdmi vn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm sv\u011btem. A\u00a0\u201epoho\u00adda\u201c nen\u00ed ni\u010d\u00edm jin\u00fdm ne\u017e rozpt\u00fdlen\u00edm chaosu v\u00a0jejich hlav\u011b.
\nV\u00a0euforick\u00e9m o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed potom\u00adka se rodi\u010de rozhoduj\u00ed vychov\u00e1vat ho podle principu d\u00fdch\u00e1n\u00ed: v\u00fddech\u00a0\u2013 poskytov\u00e1n\u00ed prostoru k\u00a0objevov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak jen je to mo\u017en\u00e9\u037e je dovoleno vynikat\u037e sm\u011bt vy\u010dn\u00edvat\u037e je dovoleno sn\u00edt\u037e m\u00edt p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed\u037e je dovoleno padat a\u00a0zase vst\u00e1\u00advat. A\u00a0n\u00e1dech\u00a0\u2013 stanovov\u00e1n\u00ed hranic\u037e p\u0159i nab\u00edzen\u00ed bezpe\u010d\u00ed\u037e p\u0159i kladen\u00ed n\u00e1rok\u016f\u037e p\u0159i konfrontaci\u037e p\u0159i kladen\u00ed kri\u00adtick\u00fdch ot\u00e1zek\u037e p\u0159i ponech\u00e1n\u00ed mo\u017e\u00adnosti p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let s\u00e1m o\u00a0sob\u011b.<\/p>\n

V\u00a0praxi rodi\u010d zji\u0161\u0165uje, jak n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 toto je. Chce sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b ochr\u00e1nit\u2026 P\u0159ed \u010d\u00edm? P\u0159ed t\u00edm, \u010deho se on s\u00e1m boj\u00ed? D\u00edt\u011b samo tento strach nem\u00e1, alespo\u0148 prozat\u00edm. Je p\u0159ipraveno \u010delit \u017eivotu, je to pro n\u011bj ohromn\u00e9 dobrodru\u017estv\u00ed. Je to cesta pozn\u00e1n\u00ed, kde pocity a\u00a0in\u00adtuice slou\u017e\u00ed jako kompas k\u00a0ur\u010den\u00ed sm\u011bru a\u00a0opatrnost ani p\u0159edch\u00e1zen\u00ed rizik\u016fm t\u00edmto kompasem nejsou. Jsou v\u00a0mo\u0159i \u017eivota vysok\u00e9 vlny? Bezva! Mami neboj, tati, tohle je m\u016fj \u017eivot. \u201eV\u00edte p\u0159ece, \u017ee \u017eivot je \u017eivotu nebezpe\u010dn\u00fd!\u201c
\nA\u00a0posl\u00e9ze se stanou rodi\u010di. Role se prohod\u00ed. Zat\u00edmco d\u0159\u00edve byl d\u00edt\u011btem kladouc\u00edm v\u0161ete\u010dn\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky, nyn\u00ed za\u010d\u00ed\u00adn\u00e1 o\u00a0n\u011bkter\u00fdch z\u00a0nich uva\u017eovat. Kde je na\u0161e odvaha \u017e\u00edt \u017eivot? Pono\u0159ili jsme se do sv\u00fdch srdc\u00ed a\u00a0na\u0161li jsme tam sv\u00e9 nejhlub\u0161\u00ed touhy a\u00a0sna\u017e\u00edme se je n\u00e1sle\u00addovat? Nebo jsme se chytili do lepkav\u00e9 s\u00edt\u011b soci\u00e1ln\u00edch z\u00e1vazk\u016f a\u00a0o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed? Nechali jsme se \u0159\u00eddit strachem, z\u016fstali jsme p\u0159i zemi\u00a0\u2013 nebo snad stoj\u00edme na hranici sv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed a\u00a0nech\u00e1v\u00e1\u00adme odej\u00edt jistotu (zd\u00e1nliv\u00e9 bezpe\u010d\u00ed)? M\u00e1me odvahu rozt\u00e1hnout k\u0159\u00eddla, za\u00adpomenout na chv\u00edli na sv\u00e9 mal\u00e9 j\u00e1 a\u00a0p\u0159en\u00e9st se do nekone\u010dna?<\/p>\n

A\u00a0pak si to uv\u011bdom\u00ed: d\u00fdchali pro sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Vdechovali a\u00a0vydechovali sv\u00e1 vlastn\u00ed omezen\u00ed na sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b tak\u00e9 vydechovali svou vlastn\u00ed tou\u00adhu po svobod\u011b. V\u00a0tomto dechov\u00e9m poli existovala jist\u00e1 synchronizace v\u00a0t\u00e9to bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 rodin\u011b. Ale nen\u00ed to\u00a0\u2013 a\u010d je to nezbytn\u00e9\u00a0\u2013 vlastn\u011b n\u011bco jin\u00e9\u00adho ne\u017e skute\u010dn\u011b svobodn\u00e9 d\u00fdch\u00e1n\u00ed? Skute\u010dn\u011b svobodn\u011b d\u00fdch\u00e1me pouze tehdy, kdy\u017e jsme spojeni s\u00a0nekone\u010d\u00adnem. Obecn\u011b na\u0161e d\u00fdch\u00e1n\u00ed souvis\u00ed se stavem na\u0161eho \u017eivota. A\u00a0n\u00e1sled\u00adn\u011b tak\u00e9 vydechujeme stav \u017eivota omezen\u00fd a\u00a0znovu potvrzovan\u00fd. Dech samoz\u0159ejm\u011b obsahuje na\u0161e dobr\u00e9 z\u00e1m\u011bry, ale tak\u00e9 obavy a\u00a0strach. Ale jak se d\u00e1 d\u00fdchat bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u011b? Jak lze d\u00fdchat nekone\u010dno, dech, p\u0159i kter\u00e9m je v\u0161echno mo\u017en\u00e9?<\/p>\n

V\u00a0SOB\u011a SAM\u00c9M\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>P\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed okam\u017eik, kdy mlad\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk nabyl odvahy pro\u00adlomit omezen\u00ed stanoven\u00e9 hranicemi, by\u0165 pouze na chvilku. A\u010dkoliv je st\u00e1\u00adle propojen s\u00a0okruhem sv\u00fdch p\u0159\u00e1tel, nyn\u00ed si st\u00e1le d\u016fkladn\u011bji vyb\u00edr\u00e1 svou cestu\u00a0\u2013 cestu z\u00a0vn\u011bj\u0161ku do nitra. Vo\u00addop\u00e1dy slov uvol\u0148uj\u00ed prostor pro je\u00adzera ticha. Tak jako tak se zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt st\u00e1le v\u00edce viditeln\u00fd: \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd se v\u00edce \u010di m\u00e9n\u011b schov\u00e1val s\u00e1m do sebe, se st\u00e1v\u00e1 \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l t\u00edm v\u00edc viditeln\u011bj\u0161\u00edm.<\/p>\n

VE V\u0160EM\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>V\u00edc ne\u017e kdy jindy se ro\u00addi\u010d c\u00edt\u00ed b\u00fdt propojen s\u00a0touto mladou bytost\u00ed. Nejen jako otec \u010di matka, spojeni poutem krve, av\u0161ak rovn\u011b\u017e propojeni skrze sv\u00e9 du\u0161e. Hled\u00e1n\u00ed svobody d\u00edt\u011btem z\u00e1rove\u0148 zviditel\u0148u\u00adje meze a\u00a0omezen\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f. Du\u0161e, kte\u00adr\u00e1 hledala t\u011blo, nep\u0159i\u0161la nadarmo do tohoto sv\u011bta skrze sv\u00e9 rodi\u010de pouze za \u00fa\u010delem str\u00e1vit n\u011bjak\u00fd \u010das s\u00a0touto rodinou. Rodi\u010de i\u00a0d\u00edt\u011b spole\u010dn\u011b putuj\u00ed objevit n\u011bco dal\u0161\u00edho, co v\u00a0nich za\u010dne d\u00fdchat, ono skute\u010dn\u00e9 j\u00e1. P\u0159i prvn\u00edm nadechnut\u00ed a\u00a0v\u00fdk\u0159iku zrozen\u00ed onoho skute\u010dn\u00e9ho j\u00e1 po\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 velmi zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed d\u00fdch\u00e1n\u00ed. D\u00fdch\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159i kter\u00e9m neko\u00adne\u010dno neust\u00e1le hled\u00e1 zd\u00e1nliv\u00e9 kone\u010d\u00adno a\u00a0op\u011bt se spojuje samo se sebou, umo\u017e\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed cokoliv p\u0159edstaviteln\u00e9. Tvo\u0159\u00edc\u00ed, p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161ej\u00edc\u00ed a\u00a0spojuj\u00edc\u00ed v\u0161e v\u00a0jedno.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Z \u010dasopisu Pentagram 2016-4: VZD\u011aL\u00c1VAT\u2026 POSKYTOVAT PROSTOR, KDE JE TO MO\u017dN\u00c9, UR\u010cOVAT HRANICE, KDE JE TO NUTN\u00c9 Zkoum\u00e1n\u00edm hranic pozn\u00e1v\u00e1me svobodu V\u00a0l\u00e1skypln\u00e9m objet\u00ed miluj\u00edc\u00edch rukou se d\u00edt\u011b c\u00edt\u00ed nejjist\u011bji. A\u00a0p\u0159ece jsou tu chv\u00edle, kdy matka mus\u00ed \u201ed\u00edt\u011b odlo\u017eit\u201c. Je to za\u010d\u00e1tek jeho osamostat\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed a\u00a0objevov\u00e1n\u00ed prostoru. T\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 jako ztracen\u00e9 pak d\u00edt\u011b le\u017e\u00ed v\u00a0pro n\u011bj nekone\u010dn\u011b obrovsk\u00e9 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"","itunes_title":"","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"","wds_primary_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4933","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-clanky"],"translation":{"provider":"WPGlobus","version":"3.0.2","language":"sk","enabled_languages":["cz","sk"],"languages":{"cz":{"title":true,"content":true,"excerpt":false},"sk":{"title":false,"content":false,"excerpt":false}}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rosicrucianum.org\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4933","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rosicrucianum.org\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rosicrucianum.org\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rosicrucianum.org\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rosicrucianum.org\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4933"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/rosicrucianum.org\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4933\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rosicrucianum.org\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4933"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rosicrucianum.org\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4933"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rosicrucianum.org\/sk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4933"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}